
2025 ~ 40 Over 40
Pearls of Wisdom
Christine D’Sena, 50
Librarian
I like to describe myself as an outspoken introvert. As a librarian, I’m naturally inquisitive and love sharing knowledge with others. I enjoy visiting national parks and learning about wildlife. I feel most at peace when I’m surrounded by mountains and beautiful landscapes.
What are your thoughts on aging? I’ve never been afraid of getting older. The women in my family were good role models and took great care of themselves. But it wasn't about looking young, it was about living life to the fullest. I saw every decade of my life as milestones where I could reflect on the joys, challenges, and successes in my life. At 50 years old, I feel that I’ve lived a colorful and fulfilling life.
What wonderful things can younger women look forward to at your age? Younger women and girls, might think that it's scary getting older. Let's inspire them! You have more wisdom as you get older. You gain confidence and know yourself better after you've had life experiences. I feel very fortunate to be in a position to teach and inspire younger generations.
Share tips on how you celebrate yourself, what you do for fun, and self care. As a naturally reserved person, it's important for me to spend time away from everyday noise and crowds. I enjoy going on staycations a couple of times a year to decompress and recalibrate. My favorite places for weekend getaways are Ko Olina and Waikoloa.
Share one experience/story. We all have life struggles. But the big share is how did you over come and lift yourself up? Advice to other women to empower them. When I was 38, I had to start my life over again after a divorce. At the time, it was important for me to keep looking forward. I turned to my family and friends for moral support, traveled a lot, and focused on my career. I pushed myself towards the path of healing and self improvement. Two years later, I met the love of my life, who is now my husband. When you take the necessary steps to move forward, you have the power to reinvent yourself and create a happier future.





